
Modern, relational therapy—tailored to you.
Trauma-informed therapy and EMDR therapy, based in Hong Kong
Welcome, I’m Alli.
I’m a psychotherapist trained in Canada and based in Hong Kong.
My life has taught me to appreciate how complex it is to be human. I understand how adversity can thrust us into survival mode, and how this can cause us to lose connection with ourselves and others during the times when connections are needed most. Complexity can have an isolating effect in a world that shies away from painful and challenging experiences. One of my hopes is that therapy can be a space that counters this isolation.
Trauma-informed therapy welcomes and affirms the most complex parts of our humanity.
Who I work with
My focus is on helping people develop the skills and capacity to process the ongoing effects of repeated, difficult life experiences. I work with people who would like to address persistent feelings of shame, self-blame, and/or fear that have left them feeling disconnected from themselves. The approach I use tends to be particularly well suited for people who identify as highly sensitive or who have felt the need to hide who they truly are in an act of self-protection. Many of my clients are LGBTQ+.
I am dedicated to helping people recover from:
The lasting effects of inconsistent or neglectful childhoods
Systemic violations of trust and safety such as organized scams, spiritual trauma, or discrimination
Harms based on gender/sexuality such as harassment or assault
The unique grief that comes from a past or ongoing loss of identity or safety
Grief after the loss of a loved one

If you’re interested in working together, please visit my contact page.
I keep this page updated to indicate whether I am taking on new clients.
My background
I believe there is immense value in recognizing the complex layers of people’s stories.
I am drawn to this work because of its complexity—it inspires my curiosity and motivates me to seek out the best practices in supporting people through stress, trauma, and loss. To me, it is an honour to walk alongside my clients as they navigate some of life’s most daunting challenges. I love what I do.

We’re often told we can find everything we need within ourselves.
You may have heard some well-intentioned statements in response to your pain such as accept the past or be kind to yourself. There is truth and good intention embedded in these ideas. However, they can oversimplify our experiences and fail to recognize the lasting emotional impacts of stress, trauma, and grief. In my experience, we do have much of what we need within ourselves, but we might benefit from support in developing the skills and capacity we need to access those things.
In therapy, we honour your complexity by tending to the impacts of your pain while also exploring what might be in the way of your deepest, most authentic hopes.